EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE I (Premium)
“If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand, if you don’t have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can’t have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far.” – Daniel Goleman, Ph.D.
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Question 1 of 20
1. Question
- I can manage stress, behavior, emotions, and thoughts for effectively pursuing long-term goals.
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People with high emotional intelligence are more likely to stay calm under pressure, resolve conflict effectively, and respond with empathy.
Here are some tips that might help you maintain this control:
- Mindfulness and Meditation: Practice mindfulness meditation regularly to increase self-awareness and improve your ability to manage emotions and thoughts.
- Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Maintain a balanced diet, exercise regularly, and ensure you get enough sleep. Physical health significantly impacts mental well-being.
- Set Clear Goals: Break down your long-term goals into smaller, manageable tasks. This makes them less overwhelming and easier to tackle.
- Time Management: Allocate your time effectively to prioritize tasks that contribute to your long-term goals. Avoid procrastination and distractions.
- Emotional Regulation Techniques: Learn techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or visualization to manage stress and regulate emotions.
- Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive friends, family, or mentors who can provide encouragement and guidance when needed.
- Positive Self-Talk: Challenge negative thoughts and replace them with positive affirmations. Cultivate a growth mindset and believe in your ability to overcome challenges.
- Flexibility: Stay adaptable and open to adjustments in your plans. Sometimes unforeseen circumstances may require you to change your approach to achieving your goals.
- Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. This helps maintain motivation and reinforces positive behaviors.
- Self-Reflection: Regularly reflect on your progress and experiences. Identify what strategies are working well and what areas need improvement, then adjust accordingly.
Remember, mastering control over these aspects of your life is an ongoing journey. Be patient and kind to yourself as you continue to grow and develop these skills.
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Question 2 of 20
2. Question
- I avoid handling criticism with denial, blame, excuses, or anxiety. I look for a healthy and constructive manner that contributes to my professional growth.
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Here are some strategies to help you effectively manage criticism without resorting to denial, blame, excuses, or anxiety:
- Listen Actively: When receiving criticism, focus on understanding the feedback without immediately reacting. Listen attentively to what the other person is saying without interrupting.
- Stay Calm: Keep your emotions in check and avoid becoming defensive or agitated. Take deep breaths to help you stay calm and composed.
- Seek Clarification: If the criticism is unclear or vague, ask for specific examples or details to better understand the issue at hand.
- Acknowledge the Feedback: Instead of denying or dismissing the criticism, acknowledge it with an open mind. Express appreciation for the feedback, even if it’s difficult to hear.
- Reflect Before Responding: Take some time to reflect on the criticism before formulating a response. Consider whether there is validity to the feedback and how you can use it constructively.
- Own Your Mistakes: If the criticism is justified, take responsibility for your actions or behavior. Avoid making excuses or shifting blame onto others.
- Focus on Improvement: Use criticism as an opportunity for growth and learning. Instead of dwelling on negative feelings, channel your energy into identifying areas where you can improve.
- Ask for Guidance: If you’re unsure about how to address the criticism or make improvements, don’t hesitate to seek guidance or advice from others.
- Maintain Perspective: Remember that receiving criticism is a normal part of life, and it doesn’t define your worth as a person. Try to keep things in perspective and avoid taking criticism personally.
- Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself, especially in moments of vulnerability. Remind yourself that everyone makes mistakes and faces criticism at some point.
By approaching criticism with openness, humility, and a willingness to learn, you can turn it into a valuable opportunity for personal and professional development.
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Question 3 of 20
3. Question
- Understand what triggers my emotions like anger, happiness, boredom, or if something is of interest.
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Here’s how you can further explore and utilize this self-awareness to control your emotions:
- Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on past experiences when you’ve felt angry, happy, bored, or interested. Identify the specific situations, events, or people that triggered these emotions.
- Keep a Journal: Maintain a journal where you record your thoughts and emotions throughout the day. This can help you identify patterns and recurring triggers for different emotions.
- Practice Mindfulness: Pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations in the present moment. Mindfulness techniques such as meditation can help you become more aware of your emotional responses as they arise.
- Identify Underlying Needs: Explore the underlying needs or values that may be driving your emotional reactions. For example, anger might stem from feeling disrespected, while happiness could be linked to achieving a goal.
- Develop Coping Strategies: Once you’ve identified your triggers, develop healthy coping strategies to manage your emotions in response to them. This could involve deep breathing exercises, taking a break, or seeking social support.
- Challenge Negative Thoughts: Practice cognitive restructuring techniques to challenge and reframe negative or unhelpful thoughts that contribute to certain emotions. Replace them with more balanced and realistic perspectives.
- Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries in your relationships and activities to protect your emotional well-being. Learn to say no when necessary and prioritize self-care.
- Engage in Activities That Boost Mood: Proactively engage in activities that bring you joy, fulfillment, or relaxation. This can help counteract negative emotions and enhance overall emotional resilience.
- Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you find it challenging to manage your emotions on your own, consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor. They can provide additional strategies and guidance tailored to your specific needs.
- Practice Patience and Persistence: Controlling emotions is a skill that takes time and practice to develop. Be patient with yourself and persevere, even if progress feels slow at times.
By gaining insight into what triggers your emotions and learning how to respond to them in a healthy way, you can enhance your emotional intelligence and overall well-being.
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Question 4 of 20
4. Question
- I consider mistakes opportunities for learning and growth, facts to be noted, analyzed, and corrected.
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Question 5 of 20
5. Question
- I recognize my faults and consider them part of my personal growth.
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Question 6 of 20
6. Question
- I take full responsibility for my actions and avoid making excuses.
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Question 7 of 20
7. Question
7. I usually listen and look for the facts before forming conclusions or passing judgment.
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Question 8 of 20
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- I usually apologize for any misunderstanding to effectively promote open dialogue.
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Question 9 of 20
9. Question
- I separate myself from my emotions to remain open-minded and attentive to what is being said.
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Question 10 of 20
10. Question
- I am recognized as a great listener who can effectively separate facts from interpretations.
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Question 11 of 20
11. Question
11. I strive to simplify complex matters into easy-to-understand messages.
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Here are some strategies you might employ to achieve this:
- Know Your Audience: Understand the background, knowledge level, and preferences of your audience. Tailor your message to suit their needs and communicate in a way that resonates with them.
- Use Plain Language: Avoid jargon, technical terms, or overly complex language that may confuse or alienate your audience. Opt for simple, clear language that is easy to understand.
- Focus on Key Points: Identify the most important points or concepts that you want to convey and prioritize them in your message. Streamline your communication by focusing on what is essential and relevant.
- Provide Context: Offer context or background information to help your audience grasp the significance of the topic or issue at hand. Frame complex ideas in familiar terms or use analogies to make them more relatable.
- Break It Down: Divide complex topics into smaller, more manageable components to make them easier to digest. Present information in a step-by-step manner, building upon foundational concepts before introducing more advanced ideas.
- Visual Aids: Use visual aids such as diagrams, charts, or infographics to complement your message and enhance understanding. Visual representations can often convey complex information more effectively than text alone.
- Tell Stories: Use storytelling techniques to illustrate key points or concepts in a memorable and engaging way. Stories can captivate your audience’s attention and make abstract ideas more tangible and relatable.
- Encourage Interaction: Foster active engagement and participation by encouraging questions, comments, or discussion. Create opportunities for your audience to seek clarification or share their perspectives.
- Solicit Feedback: Seek feedback from your audience to gauge their understanding and identify areas where clarification may be needed. Use this feedback to refine your communication approach and improve clarity.
- Practice Empathy: Put yourself in the shoes of your audience and consider their perspective when crafting your message. Anticipate their questions or concerns and address them proactively to enhance comprehension.
By applying these strategies, you can effectively distill complex information into simple, easy-to-understand messages that resonate with your audience. This not only facilitates communication but also empowers others to grasp challenging concepts and make informed decisions.
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Question 12 of 20
12. Question
- I am willing to admit personal fault, being open to learning from my mistakes and taking responsibility for my actions.
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Question 13 of 20
13. Question
- I empathize with the people around me to promote collaboration and cooperation.
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Empathizing strengthens the way you manage your emotions. At work, empathizing increase productivity and talent retention.
To continue empathizing with the people around you, consider the following strategies:
- Listen Actively: Pay close attention to what others are saying, both verbally and nonverbally. Show genuine interest and empathy by listening attentively and without judgment.
- Put Yourself in Their Shoes: Make an effort to understand the perspectives, feelings, and experiences of others. Imagine yourself in their position and consider how you would feel or react in similar circumstances.
- Validate Their Emotions: Acknowledge and validate the emotions of others, even if you don’t necessarily agree with their perspectives. Let them know that their feelings are valid and worthy of consideration.
- Be Present and Available: Be physically and emotionally present for the people around you. Offer your support, encouragement, and assistance when needed, and make yourself available to listen and provide comfort.
- Practice Compassion: Approach interactions with kindness, compassion, and a genuine desire to alleviate the suffering of others. Look for opportunities to offer support and assistance, even in small ways.
- Seek Understanding: Ask questions and seek clarification to gain a deeper understanding of others’ experiences and perspectives. Avoid making assumptions and be open to learning from their unique insights.
- Express Empathy Verbally and Nonverbally: Use both verbal and nonverbal cues to convey empathy, such as nodding, maintaining eye contact, and offering supportive statements. Let others know that you are there for them and that you care about their well-being.
By continuing to empathize with the people around you, you contribute to a more compassionate, understanding, and harmonious environment where everyone feels valued and supported.
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Question 14 of 20
14. Question
14. I am mindful of my emotions, gaining insight into how they may bias my decision-making process.
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Question 15 of 20
15. Question
15. I approach conflict without withholding judgment and striving to understand the other person’s point of view.
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Approach conflicts with clear understanding of the situation – Ask questions, find common grounds, and acknowledge your willingness to share their perspective.
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Question 16 of 20
16. Question
16. I keep my feelings in check by practicing self-awareness, focusing on facts, and putting myself in other people’s shoes.
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Practicing self-awareness helps you to recognize your own biases and emotional reactions, allowing you to remain objective and open-minded. Focusing on facts rather than emotions can help keep discussions grounded and productive. Putting yourself in the other person’s shoes fosters empathy and understanding, which can lead to more meaningful interactions and potentially finding common ground even in disagreement. Overall, keeping your feelings in check helps you to navigate conversations and understand different points of view.
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Question 17 of 20
17. Question
- I direct my efforts toward meaningful tasks and discussions making the most of my time and energy.
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Question 18 of 20
18. Question
- I listen to other’s views, and before offering assistance, I evaluate if they only need someone to listen to them without judgment.
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Question 19 of 20
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Question 20 of 20
20. Question
- l assess situations objectively and determine whether there’s any constructive feedback I can glean from the criticism, preventing escalation of conflict and fostering a more positive and respectful communication dynamic.
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l assess situations objectively and determine whether there’s any constructive feedback I can glean from the criticism, preventing escalation of conflict and fostering a more positive and respectful communication dynamic.
For best results, continue taking this assessment periodically and share your results with the person helping you to achieve the life you want.
References: Mark Murphy, author of Hiring For Attitude, and founder of Leadership IQ.